• Susan Singer-Alfonso

The Moment I Desired To Be a Mother

I remember the first moment I desired to be a mother.

My dear friend, Brooke was living in the mountains of Topanga, CA when she was pregnant with her second child. I was invited to her blessing way party and what I experienced was life changing.  

A Blessing Way was traditionally a Navajo Ritual created to spiritually support and empower the new mother for her journey of birthing and motherhood. ~ Mysticmamma.com

So instead of a traditional baby shower, we took this to a whole other level.

As a tomboy, a free-spirited soul, and in my early 30’s with no thoughts on bringing a child into the world at that time, I was immediately transformed.

Just imagine, being surrounded by mountains and the ocean in the distance, a white bathtub filled up with flowers and herbs as a beautiful naked momma stands in the center of a circle of women as they bathed her with oils and energy of the five elements from mother earth.

That moment my womb was awakened and I realized the importance of what it means to be a woman. From that moment on, I was broken open to the love of carrying my own child.

Little did I know, this journey would be a long one for me. After a couple years struggling with my own fertility, I realized how consuming the outside world of doctors, Google's black hole, and friends were consuming my thoughts. Negativity and sadness is how I was waking up and how I was going to sleep. I lost my own sense of self and self love was completely gone.

It was during the second failed IVF cycle that I somehow found myself back in my meditation room asking for guidance. I refused to live in this sad space anymore and was able to slowly guide myself back into my body and mind. My body has never failed me before, my positive attitude has always brought a happy life, my outlook on my future has always been bright. Whenever I asked for guidance, I was always supported and directed onto a path better than where my ego would send me.

I was able to come back to my true self with a powerful belief that I WILL have a child. Throughout the years of studying yoga, mind, body, and spirit I realized the truth of this practice and my mission is to offer these tools to others who are struggling on their path to conceiving a child. You must know, you have the power to change your thoughts and your fertility journey. I truly believe I was supposed to birth this path as a Fertility Yoga Teacher before birthing my own child.

Guiding you back into your beautiful body and mind is what my work is all about. And, we all know how hard it can be during this holidays. That is why I got you a present!!!

I created an online fertility yoga bundle that will guide you towards becoming the Goddess Momma you know you are destined to be. A holiday discount just for you!





”I just finished my ritual, I’m completely obsessed. I was craving the Kundalini Kriya when I woke up. I was able to do it for six minutes today! Thank you so much Susan!” ~ Kayla

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