Your Baby's Spirit
I believe in past lives. I believe that your baby chooses you. I believe that if you are meant to have a baby(ies) their spirit is around you when they are ready to enter into this world.
To myself and my Goddess Momma (TTC) sisters out there, we must realize that our baby is coming when he/she is ready too. Now, I have mixed feelings about all this, because I believe in assisted reproductive technology (ART). So does that mean, when an IVF, IUI, egg donor, is successful we are forcing a child to come into this world? I don't have the answer to that question right now.
But, I do think that no matter what, no matter how your child comes into this world, their soul comes second. So even if you have an egg donor and it is not your genetics, it is still 100% your baby. The spirit baby chose you. The soul had already picked you. The soul does not care what it looks like it just wants you to be its mother.
There is a sense of peace that has come to me knowing that the spirit of my child is out there and no matter how or when my body is pregnant, that spirit is waiting for me. It chose me.
If you are interested in learning more about spirit babies, I highly recommend this book.